As we age, we often find ourselves reminiscing about our childhoods and the things our mothers used to say. That’s why we created the Things Your Mother Told You – A Reminiscing Activity for Seniors. These nostalgic phrases are more than just bringing back fond memories! but also contain valuable life lessons that have stuck with us throughout the years.
The Beauty of the Things Your Mother Told You
It is important to encourage seniors to share these memories and pass down their wisdom to future generations. In this blog, we’ll explore some of the common phrases our mothers used to say. We will discover the valuable life lessons they contain, focusing on how they can benefit seniors in aged care.
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Here Are The Common Things Moms Used to Say:
“If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” This advice is timeless. It’s just as important now as when you first heard it. Our world can be full of negativity. Be kind and choose your words carefully. This makes a big difference in how you connect with others.
“Treat others how you want to be treated.” Another classic piece of advice that we’ve all heard before. But as we get older, it becomes even more important to remember. We never know what someone else is going through, and a little bit of kindness can go a long way. By treating others with respect and empathy, we create a better world for everyone.
“Money doesn’t grow on trees.” We may have scoffed at it as kids, but financial responsibility is key to adulthood. It boils down to this: money runs out. By spending wisely and making good choices, we build a secure future.
“Always be yourself.” In a world that often pressures us to conform, it’s important to remember to stay true to ourselves. Your mother likely encouraged you to be your authentic self and to never apologize for who you are. Embracing our uniqueness and individuality is a key part of living a fulfilling and meaningful life.
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“Actions speak louder than words.” Our mother may have taught you the importance of following through on your promises and showing up for others. Whether it’s a small gesture of kindness or a grand gesture of love, actions are powerful. These actions make the real difference in the world around us.
“If something is worth doing, it’s worth doing well.” This is a classic phrase that many of us have heard throughout our lives. It’s a reminder that if we’re going to do something, we should put in our best effort and do it to the best of our abilities.
“Don’t pull that face, if the wind changes you’ll stay like that!” This was a common phrase used when we were making faces or sticking our tongues out. It was a playful way for our mothers to remind us to be mindful of our actions.
“Just you wait and see.” This phrase was often used when we were eagerly waiting for something to happen. Our mothers would use it to encourage us to be patient and to remind us that good things come to those who wait.
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“If someone told you to jump off a cliff would you?” This is a phrase that our mothers used to warn us about peer pressure. It’s a reminder that we should always think for ourselves and not blindly follow others.
“Were you born in a barn?” This phrase was often used when we forgot to close a door or left a mess behind us. It was a playful way for our mothers to remind us to be mindful of our surroundings.
“There’s no such word as can’t” This phrase was often used to encourage us to try our best and not give up too easily. It’s a reminder that with determination and hard work, anything is possible.
“Eat your crusts and you’ll get curly hair” This was a playful way for our mothers to encourage us to eat our crusts. Although it’s not true that eating crusts will give you curly hair, it’s a reminder that we should always try new things and not be afraid to step outside of our comfort zones.
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“Do as I say, not as I do” This is a phrase that our mothers used when they wanted us to follow their advice, even if they didn’t always practice what they preached. It’s a reminder that our mothers always had our best interests at heart.
“Because I said so” This is a phrase that many of us heard when we were growing up and questioning our mothers’ decisions. Although it may have seemed like a simple answer at the time, it’s a reminder that our mothers were the authority figures in our lives and we should trust them.
“Tidy your room, or else you’re not going out” This was a playful way for our mothers to encourage us to keep our rooms tidy. It was a reminder that we should always take pride in our surroundings and respect our living spaces.
“I’ll count to ten” This was often used as a warning when we were misbehaving. It was a reminder that there were consequences to our actions and we should always try to behave in a respectful manner. As we grow older, we may no longer need to be counted to ten, but the lesson still applies. We should always think before we act and be mindful of how our actions may impact others.
